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هل تفتيش جوال الزوج أو الزوجة أمر عادي ومقبول أم لا؟.. بالفيديو: "مستشارة أسرية" تُجيب

هل تفتيش جوال الزوج أو الزوجة أمر عادي ومقبول أم لا؟.. بالفيديو: "مستشارة أسرية" تُجيب
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صحيفة المرصد: قدمت رهام قصاص، مستشارة أسرية، وجهة نظرها حول فكرة  تفتيش جوال الزوج أو الزوجة أمر عادي ومقبول أم لا.


أشارت "قصاص" عبر بودكاست "فنجان" إلى أنه فيما يخص الخصوصية المقبولة بين الزوجين، فكرة إن الزوجة أو الزوج يفتح الجوال ويراقب حديثها مع زملائها أو تراقب حديثه مع زملائه  غير مقبول.


وأوضحت رأيها قائلة : هذا التصرف معناه في خوف، ستصير مشكلة فيما بعد لأن الشخص سيشعر كل فترة أنه لابد من هذا التفتيش. 


وأكملت: الغيرة مشاعر، وهي موجودة لأنها تدينا مؤشرات للشيء المريح وغير المريح، أما غيرة  شخص يريد أن أُغير من أنا ويحاول يسيطر على كل شيء، فهذا شيء مرضي.


وأضافت: تنظيم المشاعر مهم جدًا،  الغيرة موجودة، ولكن كيف نتكلم عنها، سأقول بهدوء إني غيرانة من هذه التصرفات، أو هل سأكون انفاعلية وغاضبة.

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