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أيهما أفضل الزواج الذي يسبقه تعارف بين الشاب والفتاة أم الزواج التقليدي؟.. المستشار النفسي "علي الجمل" يجيب

أيهما أفضل الزواج الذي يسبقه تعارف بين الشاب والفتاة أم الزواج التقليدي؟.. المستشار النفسي "علي الجمل" يجيب
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صحيفة المرصد: أكد المستشار التربوي والأخصائي النفسي علي الجمل، أن التعارف قبل الزواج يحتل الجزء العاطفي المساحة الأوسع ويحاول كل واحد منهما أن يظهر للطرف الآخر أفضل ما لديه ويتجنبوا الصراعات.


وأضاف الجمل في تصريح حصري لـ"المرصد"، أن التعارف قبل الزواج مهم لتكوين أسرة ناجحة وذلك عبر مناقشة أمورهما المادية، فلابد من معرفة كل شخص للطرف الآخر وظروفه وشخصيته حتى ينسجمان مع بعضهما البعض قبل أن يبدأ الزواج فتكون العلاقة أكثر ديمومة وتستمر.

علي الجمل، التعارف قبل الزواج، الزواج التقليدي
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