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بالفيديو .. باحث اجتماعي سعودي : "الزواج عن حب ومعرفة يدوم طويلاً وجميل جدا.. فافسحوا الطريق للمحبين "
6 شهر 194 14087

صحيفة المرصد: قال الباحث والكاتب الدكتور فهد العليان، إن الزواج عن محبة ومعرفة يدوم طويلا وجميل جدا. 


قصة شاب 

وروى قصة شاب تزوج عن حب قائلا: " بحكم عملي أسافر كثيرا، وفي إحدى المرات سافرت إلى محايل عسير، واستقبلني شابان في المطار، وأثناء توجهنا من المطار إلى محايل عسير تحدثت مع الشابين، وتوقعت أن أحدهما غير متزوج، وقلت له : " إن شاء الله تتزوج" ، فقال لي: " أنا متزوج وعندي بنت اسمها هيام"، فقلت له هذا الاسم هيام اختارتوه قبل الزواج أم بعده"، فنظر لي باستغراب، فقلت له : " أظن أنك تزوجت من أحببت"، فرد قائلا: " نعم، وهذا الاسم اختارناه قبل الزواج". 


افسحوا الطريق 

وأشار إلى أنه أثناء قيام الشاب بتوصيله إلى المطار بعد انتهاء الحفل استأذن منه أن ينشر قصته في الصحيفة بدون ذكر اسمه، ووافق الشاب على طلبه، وكتب القصة واختتمها قائلا: " افسحوا الطريق للمحبين".


زواج حب فهد العليان
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